Everyday, sometimes multiple times a day, I post something encouraging about marriage. Sometimes it’s from MarriageWorks! Other times it’s from BlackandMarriedWithKids.com, or other sites. I do this on days when I’m head-over-heels in love with my husband. I do this on days he’s getting on my last nerves. I do it on days when I’m at my best, as well as days when I’m at my worst. I do this because speaking life into my marriage not only encourages me; it wards off any destructive devices that might seek to infiltrate when our guards are down.